Corsets 

You look very charming and feminine, but you are still closer to male logic and rationalism. Therefore, you are interesting for men, but in a relationship where a more personal and sensitive approach is required here and there, there will be a misunderstanding. The partner expects that you will change in the relationship and become more sensitive and personal. But you are not like that. There are exactly two solutions. It is best to combine both. The first solution is to talk to your partner and explain to him what you are like. And the second solution is an erotic corset, with which you can prove to him that despite your rational approach, you are a woman which he wants.